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DIY One-Day Joy Retreat

Joy Rooted in Faith, Grown with Intention

A faith-based day retreat that blends scripture, awe, and the science of happiness to cultivate joy. This retreat is designed as a pause from the ordinary—a gentle reset and a jumpstart for living with more joy. Each activity offers three options so you can choose what resonates most with your spirit and season of life.


The suggested times are flexible. You may want to spend more or less time depending on your rhythm. Choose the activities that work best for you, and feel free to alter or adapt them as needed. Movement and exercise are meant to be restorative—listen to your body. Depending on your level of fitness, you may choose to make it more intense or keep it gentle. Move at levels that give your body the goodness it is craving.


Given the time structures, this retreat can fit into a flexible day. The activities can be interwoven into a day with fewer demands, or you can dedicate a whole day solely to this practice. In the spaces between activities, move slowly and notice the world around you—practicing gratitude as much as possible.


Opening Ritual (15 minutes)


Choose one way to begin with faith and wonder:

  • Scripture Reading: Read Psalm 16:11, Philippians 4:4–7, or John 15:11 slowly three times. Reflect: “Where is God inviting me to joy today?”
  • Awe Practice: Step outside and notice three things that stir wonder (sky, trees, breath). Whisper aloud: “I receive joy today.”
  • Sacred Music: Play a worship song or hymn that lifts your spirit. Let the words wash over you as prayer.


Late Morning: Grounding + Gratitude


Grounding & Mindfulness (15 minutes)

  • Breath Prayer: Inhale mercy, exhale tension. Repeat for 5 minutes.
  • Sensory Scan: Practice 5-4-3-2-1 grounding (notice 5 things you see, 4 you feel, 3 you hear, 2 you smell, 1 you taste).
  • Stillness: Sit quietly with eyes closed for two minutes, resting in God’s presence.


Gratitude Activation (20 minutes)

  • Gratitude Journal: Write 5 things you’re grateful for today + 1 thing you’re grateful to yourself for.
  • Gratitude Walk: Slowly walk around your space noticing small delights—patterns, colors, warmth, sounds.
  • Gratitude Prayer: Speak aloud a short prayer of thanks for three blessings in your life.


Lunch Break: Nourish With Presence


Mindful Meal (20–30 minutes)

  • Simple Meal: Prepare something nourishing with intention, noticing colors and textures.
  • Silent Eating: Eat without multitasking, savoring each bite.
  • Blessing Reflection: Pause before eating to pray: “Thank You for this gift of nourishment.”


Afternoon: Creativity + Expression


Artistic Joy Practice (45–60 minutes)

  • Visual: Paint or collage “what joy feels like.”
  • Written: Write a joy letter to your future self or create a poem titled “Joy When I Least Expect It.”
  • Movement/Music: Stretch, sway, or play an instrument to a playlist of joy.


Goal: express joy, not perfect it.


Late Afternoon: Joy Through Service


Micro-Acts of Service (20–30 minutes)

  • Encouragement: Write notes or send voice messages to three people.
  • Generosity: Donate items you no longer need or leave a kind review for a small business.
  • Care: Assemble a small care bag for someone in need.


Reflection Prompt: “How does giving create more spaciousness for joy?”


Evening: Integration + Rest


Joy Integration Meditation (10 minutes)

  • Day Scan: Ask: “Where did joy find me? Where did I make room for joy? What surprised me?”
  • Scripture Reflection: Revisit your morning passage and notice how it speaks differently now.
  • Silent Prayer: Rest in God’s presence with gratitude for the day.


Closing Ritual (10 minutes)

  • Carry Forward: Write down one joy practice you want to bring into tomorrow.
  • Symbolic Ending: Blow out a candle, dim the lights, or step outside for a final breath of awe.
  • Closing gratitude: Speak aloud: “Thank you!”


Optional Add-Ons

  • Joy Jar: Write 3 micro-moments of joy from today and place them in a jar to revisit later.
  • Evening Walk of Awe: Step outside at dusk and look for beauty in the sky.
  • Comfort Ritual: End the night with a warm bath or herbal tea ceremony.

Inviting Dr. Kelly D. Holder, Speaks on Mental Health, Joy, and Sustainable Care

A DIY Joy Retreat for Mental Well-Being, Rest, and Renewal

Joy Rooted in Faith, Grown with Intention

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​This website provides general information and discussion about wellness, health, and related subjects. The content provided in this website, and in any linked materials, are not intended and should not be construed as medical advice. If the viewer or any other person has a mental health concern, they should consult with an appropriately-licensed provider.


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